SEVEN WAYS TO BOOST YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE


Boosting self-confidence is not an easy thing. But still, boosting self-confidence is an important thing and a must in life. Everyone needs to believe in themselves if they want to have a good and happy life.

Self-confidence means trusting your abilities, capabilities, and decision-making. Plus, self-confidence is about maintaining a positive mindset of yourself and your life.

So on this special date, 22.02.2022, I, Fadima Mooneira would like to help myself and others to boost our self-confidence. So here are seven ways to boost our self-confidence...




#1 FOCUS ON YOUR INNER QUALITIES

Focusing on inner qualities is the no.1 key in boosting self-confidence. This is because inner qualities help us get to know ourselves better and know what we're capable of. Inner qualities bring a lot of magic to a person more than physical appearance. So guys, if you want to be confident with yourself, you need to focus on your inner qualities. Don't focus too much on your looks. In fact, you'll be automatically good-looking if you're confident with your inner self no matter how you look like.


#2 BELIEVE IN YOUR CAPABILITIES

Once we're confident in our inner qualities, we know our capabilities. And once we know our capabilities, we must be confident with them. Our capabilities make us special. So be grateful for your capabilities, guys. And please make good use of them. 


#3 PRACTICE SELF-LOVE

Self-love is also super important in boosting self-confidence. If we want others to believe in us, we must believe in ourselves first. And if we want to believe in ourselves, we must love ourselves first. So love yourself, guys. Please tell yourself that you are worth it. You are awesome the way you are. And most important, be unapologetically you ^_^

PS: Unapologetically is my favorite word now. Yes, I am unapologetically me ^_^




#4 SET DAILY AND LONG-TERM GOALS FOR YOURSELF

Goals are motivations to improve our life. Without goals, our life will be like eating ice cream with no flavor. So this is why setting daily and long-term goals are important for our self-development. Plus, working hard and achieving our goals will help us increase our confidence. Achieving our goals tells us that we are stronger and smarter than we thought we were. So dare to dream big and work on your dreams, guys. You have nothing to lose. And be brave enough to face failure. Failure is the beginning of success.


#5 CELEBRATE YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS EVERY DAY (INCLUDING SMALL ONES)

After working hard to improve our lives and achieve our goals, we need to celebrate the achievements (including small ones).  So go reward yourself with something nice. Maybe buy yourself a simple present, cook a delicious meal for yourself, or maybe have a pampering day for yourself. This is also part of self-love practice.


#6 DON'T COMPARE YOURSELF WITH OTHERS

Comparing yourself with other people is a bad habit. It ruins your self-confidence. So don't and never ever compare yourself with other people. Some people may achieve more than you, and some may achieve less than you. But you must remember that every one's life and journey are unique. And so are yours.


#7 SPEND TIME WITH GOOD PEOPLE & DITCH TOXIC PEOPLE

It is also important for us to choose who our friends are. Be friends and spend time with good people who make you feel positive about yourself. The positive feeling will help you to boost your self-confidence.

And besides, being friends and spending time with good people, you also need to ditch those who don't appreciate you and make you feel small. These people are toxic. They will ruin the beauty inside you and suck your positive energy (including your self-confidence). So please ditch these toxic people from your life, guys. They don't deserve your kindness. And remember, you deserve way much better than them ^_^



Ok, so these are the seven ways to boost self-confidence. I believe these seven tips are important for us to follow to boost our self-confidence. And most important, please remind yourself that you're BORN TO DO IT!

Last but not least, I want to ask my readers one question on boosting self-confidence. What do you guys do to boost your self-confidence? Please share some of your tips with me in the comment box below. I would like to hear from you guys ^_^

Ok, this is all for now. Thank you for reading. See you guys again in my next post. Insya-Allah. 

XoXo,

Fadima Mooneira ^_^


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  1. Great tips, I'm always practicing self-love. I will follow the rest of these tips. Thank you for sharing!

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  2. Confidence in yourself is so important, and I love that you've focused on it in this post :) thank you for sharing!

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    1. You’re welcome πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–

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  3. Yesssssss to all of these tips, Fadima. Not comparing myself to others is a key one, albeit hard to stick to sometimes. I also think it's important to know your own worth and not let others devalue you.

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  4. This is so supportive and encouraging; thanks for sharing such great tips. I've made a note of them as I definitely need to nurture my self-confidence a bit.

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    1. Same here. We’ll do it together πŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺ

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  5. Thanks so much for all these reminders that we should be thankful, always and strive to be the best, At times, it takes someone else to see the beauty in us.

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  6. You're right in what you say about focusing on inner qualities, and not on looks. It really does make you way more attractive to me if you're a good person. I do love setting goals and working towards them. I couldn't imagine not having something to work towards :( Thanks for the reminder that we're all worth it :)

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    1. My pleasure, dear. Thank you for reading πŸ’œπŸ’›πŸ’•

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  7. Focusing on inner qualities is such a good tip. That's one I'm going to try more of.

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    1. All the best. Remember, Anika... You’re a good writer, content creator, photographer, and has good taste in books. Plus, you’re one of my favorite bloggers.

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  8. This is such a great post!! I especially love the tip about ditching toxic people! Over the pandemic, it made me realise who is good for me and who isn't, and I feel so much better for it!

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    1. Yeah, me too. This pandemic makes me get to know myself better.

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  9. all tips are true indeed. self love tu important, or else kita always akan downgrade ourself, good tips sharing

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  10. i love this list and i agree with you 100&. ditching toxic people is really very important as it changes the entire mindset and dynamic!

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    1. So true. That’s what I did to change myself. It works! And I hope not to have any toxic people in my life ever again. Insya-Allah. Aaamiin.

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  11. Semua di atas adalah benar Fadima.. self confidence ni tak semua ada, macam Sis juga, kadang tak konpiden dengan diri sendiri tapi kena yakin.. baru tenang-tenang je hidup .. thanks fadima..

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    1. You’re welcome. Saya pun ada juga kekdgn rasa x confident dgn diri sendiri. But like you said, we must motivate and educate ourselves. Ada sebab kenapa kita dilahirkan ke dunia kan.

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  12. Practicing self- care and surrounding yourself with people that support you are great tips!
    xoxo
    Lovely
    www.mynameislovely.com

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  13. Such a beautiful post, beautiful pictures and quotes.
    So inspiring..

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  14. Very helpful post. Thank you for writing this.

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  15. These are great tips. When I'm feeling low in confidence, I tell myself 3 things I like about myself and focus on them.

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    1. Yay!!!! That’s a good tip, Kelly, I need to be doing that too everytime I feel low. Thank you for sharing.

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  16. Aw I love this blog post! building up one's confidence isn't always easy, but you're so right when you say that we shouldn't compare ourselves and we need to ditch toxic people! :)

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    1. Yeah, that's what I did to changed my life. And it worked. Thanx to the pandemic and lockdown as well. The pandemic and lockdown helped me to reflect on myself.

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  17. Some great tips here Fadima! I’m big on celebrating all achievements, big or small!

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    1. That’s great, Jenny. Keep it up. I’m doing the same as well.

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  18. These are fantastic tips and great reminder to read! I found throughout the pandemic I was able to work a lot on my self-confidence and it's carried post pandemic as well!

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    1. Same here. The pandemic isn’t so bad after all. Syukur alhamdulillah.

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  19. Great tips. Self confidence is something I've always struggled with but since turning 30 last summer it's something I've been working on and getting better at.

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    1. That’s good. I struggle a lot with self-confidence and anxiety when was in my 20’s. Syukur alhamdulillah i’m getting to know myself better in my 30’s. And this pandemic help a lot.

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  20. I agree so much about what you share here. I've always thought that confidence transfers over to aesthetic attractiveness. I have known people that, upon first glance, may not have been attractive, but their confidence makes them a hottie. I've always been confident in certain areas of my life, but in others, I struggle. It's hard to keep the voices of others out of your head and comparison to others is a killer. Great tips here to keep people focused on who they are and what they have to offer.

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    1. So true. Focus on your inner qualities and don’t compare yourself to others are key to confidence.

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  21. I love these tips but I must admit I am trying out a "goal-less" where I'm trying to focus more on habits rather than objectives. Otherwise, I feel so happy/vindicated knowing I do most of these. Nice post.

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    1. That’s another good approach. I did that the last 3 years. And now I want to change.

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  22. I loved the point about ditching toxic people. Its very necessary as we are known by the company we keep.

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  23. LOVE LOVE LOVE this post. Being confident in your capabilities is powerful. finding New supportive people takes time and can be difficult, but once you've found one, it makes all the difference.

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