Itu Semua Rezeki Allah S.W.T
Hmm...........biasa lah tu. Setiap gadis yg usianya sudah meningkat lewat 20'an or maybe awal 30'an mesti akan ditanya dgn soalan "Bila you nak kawen nie?" Hmm............ bisalah manusia x abis2 dgn soalan tu. Kekdgn setengah gadis bila ditanya soalan macam tu memang terasa pressure, tertekan, and annoyed. Well, let me tell you a story of girl yg dah byk kali ditanya soalan pressure itu and how she answer the question. Let's get started..................
She is a girl in early 30's, well educated (has a Master Degree), has a good career, has a good parents and friends who support her in everything she do, she is also quite pretty and attractive for an ordinary girl at least. She has almost everything that a girl of her age wish to have. But there is one thing most girl have and she doesn't have. A special boyfriend!
A lot of people - her friends, colleague, and superiors are wondering, why she doesn't have a special someone? Why isn't she married yet? When is she getting married? They list down her qualities and what is lacking inside her. She is pretty, smart, friendly, funny, and has a warm personality. She has a lot of qualities that will melt a guys heart. But why is she still single? Why? Adakah dia x mencari? Atau terlalu memilih?
So they ask her the question.
And she answer........................
"Itu semua rezeki Allah S.W.T. Dah kawin, dah ada pasangan itu rezeki. Bujang itu juga rezeki. Masih bujang nie memberi kita byk pluang utk berjasa kpd kedua mak ayah kita. Selain itu, zaman bujang nie lah pluang kita utk menikmati hidup, membaiki diri, dan merebut pluang membuat dan mempelajari benda2 yg kita x pnah blaja sblum nie. Jodoh itu memang rezeki Allah S.W.T kepada kita. Allah S.W.T knows what is the best and when is the best time for us. I will not force what is not mend to be yet in my life. Selagi masih bujang nie i just wanna enjoy my life doing more of all things that make me happy. That includes be good to my parents and travel. Selagi Allah S.W.T kata blum masanya, saya x mahu pikir lagi soal jodoh. Bila masanya sampai saya percaya Allah S.W.T sendiri akan bukak hati saya. Insya'Allah"
Yes, she has a good answer.
So to my friends yg masih bujang, jgn risau kalo korang masih x bertemu jodoh lagi ya. Kerana semuanya adalah rezeki Allah S.W.T. Do not force things that aren't mend to happen yet in your life. Enjoy your life the way it is. And paling penting jgn putus asa berdoa. Insya'Allah yg terbaik akan sampai.
Ok'lah. Take care ^_^